Comments: A PERSONAL NOTE.

There is no need to apologize for this post. My father just turned 88 and I will need to post the same kind of eulogy one of these days. My father is a natural linguist, and I inherited his fascination for language. School was only available through the 9th grade for out village at that time, so that is as far as he went. But his intellectual curiousity has taken him much father.

Condolences to you and may your memories of your father bring you comfort in this time of loss.

Posted by Wayne Leman at December 26, 2005 03:39 PM

My deepest sympathies on your loss. I lost my dad last year; he was 92, but somehow as lucky as we were to have him for so long, I wanted him to live forever. May the memories and good things he gave you keep you in his spirit all the rest of your own long-lived days.

Posted by susan at December 26, 2005 03:53 PM

My deepest sympathy and condolences. Your tribute to your father here is moving -- and a testament to memories you have to cherish.

Posted by maria at December 26, 2005 04:03 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss, Hat. At least it sounds as if the circumstances were not too bad. Your filial tribute is most moving.

Posted by Tim May at December 26, 2005 04:42 PM

This has not been a good year for people. I've noticed a heavier-than-average concentration of people passing away around me, and it's quite upsetting.
My condolences go out to you and everyone else who has experienced a loss of late. There are all too many of them...

Posted by Harley at December 26, 2005 05:01 PM

My condolences, too, and thank you for the post.

Posted by Matt at December 26, 2005 05:16 PM

Sorry for your loss, and that was a beautifully-written tribute.

Posted by Aidan Kehoe at December 26, 2005 05:36 PM

Please accept my condolences.

Posted by Michael Gilleland at December 26, 2005 06:39 PM

I'm very sorry to hear about your dad-- my deepest sympathy for you & your family. That was a beautiful post.

Posted by Bridget at December 26, 2005 06:42 PM

A fine tribute. My warmest condolences to you. My father died seven years ago at about the same age, 89. I never knew just how much I'd miss him until he wasn't there.

Posted by aldiboronti at December 26, 2005 07:08 PM

My condolences. And thank you for this lovely tribute to your father.

Posted by Chris Waigl at December 26, 2005 07:27 PM

Thank you for posting this glimpse of your father, and of his influence on you.

All my siblings gathered for my father's 80th birthday last January 1. I hope he too makes it to 90.

Posted by Joel at December 26, 2005 07:28 PM

My deepest condolences to you in this time of loss, LH. Ditto what Chris said: thanks for this lovely tribute.

Posted by Jordan at December 26, 2005 07:33 PM

Sorry to hear about your loss. The best advice I've heard was that mourning has its seasons. That's great that he left you a good legacy.

Posted by mj at December 26, 2005 07:56 PM

My sincere condolences. And a really moving tribute...

Posted by Dirk Van de putte at December 26, 2005 09:40 PM

My condolences as well, and I think you can be sure that your father would be proud of your post.

Posted by Édouard at December 26, 2005 09:46 PM

My mother died many years ago in November and no November has been the same ever since. My father at 88 mourns her every day. Thank you for writing about a sadness we all share.

Posted by Suzanne McCarthy at December 27, 2005 01:54 AM

Condolences on your loss.

Posted by Charles at December 27, 2005 02:03 AM

I'm sorry about your dad. :-( My thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

--Chris

Posted by Christopher Sundita at December 27, 2005 02:28 AM

You've really touched me. I hope the days that follow will find you with some peace of mind at least. I lost my father some years ago, so I understand some of what you're going through. You have my deepest and sincerest sympathies.

Hang in there.

Posted by Peter at December 27, 2005 03:21 AM

Very sorry here, too.

Posted by Ibadairon at December 27, 2005 03:28 AM

Dear languagehat, I am so sorry to hear this, but pleased to read that you have such good remembrances of him to keep with you. Long life.

Posted by stephen at December 27, 2005 05:03 AM

I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences.

And thank you for such a fine tribute to your father.

Posted by Anatoly at December 27, 2005 05:14 AM

Deepest sympathy.

Posted by Winds at December 27, 2005 05:31 AM

Please accept my condolences to you and your family.

Posted by boo at December 27, 2005 06:17 AM

Dear Hat, my deepest sympathy. I'm sure your father would be proud just to know how many people you make happy with your blog.

Posted by Nina at December 27, 2005 07:00 AM

R.I.P.
My sincere condolences.

Br23.net from Minsk, Belarus

Posted by br23net at December 27, 2005 08:58 AM

I am so sorry to her about this. Thank you for writing such thing and share with all.

Posted by victor at December 27, 2005 09:09 AM

I'm so sorry to hear this news, Language Hat. May he rest in peace.

Posted by Laura Brown at December 27, 2005 09:42 AM

Sounds like a great man. Take care.

Posted by Joel at December 27, 2005 11:06 AM

My condolences, and thanks for the remembrances that you shared with us.

Posted by martin at December 27, 2005 11:26 AM

My heartfelt sympathy and condolences.

Posted by Peang-Meth at December 27, 2005 02:18 PM

What a shame, and at this time of year as well. I'm very sad to hear that.

Posted by looby at December 27, 2005 02:50 PM

Thank you for sharing your dad and his life with us. Sounds like he was one of a kind. My condolences to you and your family.

Posted by Chris T. at December 27, 2005 03:08 PM

Please accept my most heart-felt condolences. May your memories warm you and may your father rest in peace.

Posted by Sarah B at December 27, 2005 03:17 PM

The memories of a good father are the best legacy he could leave you. With regards to mine, 34 years gone now, I can use Hammerstein's words, "All of my memories are happy." May yours always be so. God bless you and yours.

Posted by Henry IX at December 27, 2005 03:38 PM

I'm sorry for your loss.

Posted by shekay at December 27, 2005 06:15 PM


May his memory be for a blessing, and may you know no further sorrow
זאָלסט מער נישט װיסן פֿן קײן צער

Posted by Eve at December 27, 2005 11:44 PM

My deepest sympathies. Even when a loved one's passing is relatively easy, it's not so easy on the survivors. Take care of yourself.

Posted by michael farris at December 28, 2005 08:26 AM

Horrible news. Please, accept my condolences.

Posted by Map at December 28, 2005 03:52 PM

I'm very sorry to hear of your loss--by which I mean that I sympathize with you, not that I am sorry to read such a lovely tribute to such an admirable man.

Posted by Q. Pheevr at December 28, 2005 03:56 PM

I've been away and have just seen this. My condolences to you; it sounds like he was able to give you a lot, both early or later in your life.

D

Posted by Derryl Murphy at December 28, 2005 09:08 PM

Every passing affects us in different ways, but the death of a parent is hard to bear because it forcibily reminds us that we're now the last link with the past. Condolences from this side of the Pond, Steve.

Posted by Eliza at December 29, 2005 06:04 AM

Take care of yourself, Steve, and thanks for sharing.

Posted by céline at December 29, 2005 10:33 AM

Deepest sympathies and thank you for posting this.

Posted by Claire at December 29, 2005 11:10 PM

Вот бы мои дети написали так обо мне, когда меня не станет…
Не напишут. Я плохой отец. Больно.

Posted by andy at December 30, 2005 02:50 AM

Sympathy from me too, belated because I have been travelling around Australia till last night. Of course we all would want to be kept informed of such things, dear LH.

Thinking of you.

Posted by Noetica at December 30, 2005 07:02 PM

My condolences on your loss.

Posted by Gag Halfrunt at December 31, 2005 07:57 AM

I'm so sorry to hear this. My condolences to you and your family.

Posted by Amanda at December 31, 2005 11:54 AM

I hope his memory brings you comfort and relief from sorrow.

Incidentally, where in Arkansas did he grow up?

Posted by Zackary Sholem Berger at January 2, 2006 02:16 PM

In the northwest corner; they spent time in a number of towns whose names I don't know.

Posted by language hat at January 2, 2006 02:35 PM

Very sorry for your loss.

Posted by Jesse Sheidlower at January 3, 2006 12:15 AM

My condolences to you and your family on your loss. I hope that when my father passes that I can be as eloquent. I hope that I will someday inspire such eloquence in my sons.

Posted by Coty Rosenblath at January 3, 2006 05:10 PM

A wonderful tribute. Could he not be pleased? Much love to you.

Posted by qB at January 10, 2006 08:08 AM